This reality has been backed up by research (check out the article “If Money Doesn’t Make You Happy Then You Probably Aren’t Spending It Right.”) for more details. I have been reflecting on this truth a fair amount this summer. If buying stuff doesn't really make me that happy (or at least not that happy for very long) then why am I so enamored with buying, well, stuff?
For myself I believe it is an error of the mind. I have a belief that things (especially new shiny things) will make me happy. A new car is better then an old one (or none at all). Yet whenever we get rid of the stuff in our house I find myself relaxing a little more and feeling a little more content. I don't think it's the stuff itself that is the problem, I think it's the beliefs about the stuff that hurt us.
My Son Riker always would like to buy more toys. I estimate he has about 4 or 5 times as much toys as I had when I was young. But I don't think he is any happier then I was. When we get older the toys we want just get bigger and more expensive. How many of us are still stuck in that earlier mindset - thinking that if we just buy the right stuff we'll be happy?
So how does one break the power of the idea? I think by challenging it. Doing an experiment to see if it is true. Let me know if you've done such a thing . . .